This past year has seen us slowing down, reflecting more, simplifying and prioritising, focusing on what is truly important and removing some of the complications in our lives. We have become more mindful of our daily interactions, of our language - both verbal and non-verbal and the quality of our family life has improved significantly. My husband and I, our family and Kyle's teachers and friends have all commented on and noticed a change in his behaviour. He has significantly fewer meltdowns, is happier, less angry, more flexible, more capable of dealing with changes in his routine, becoming more independent and is showing some exciting examples of thinking in a more dynamic manner.
Nikki & Kevin ~ South Africa
Think Autism has exceeded our expectations by walking alongside us in the autism journey, understanding us and encouraging us to help ourselves. It also helps to manage our expectations of ourselves and Sebastian and to look on the bright side. It's hard to explain but Elisa just "gets it" and is incredibly supportive and non-judgmental. Her knowledge of autism, psychology and general mindfulness is really helpful. RDI® in general is just so intuitive and right, I love the approach and I love working with Elisa. It has been such a fundamental transformation for our family and for Sebastian. It has given me hope for the future!
Jenni & Cristian ~Cambridge
Before we started RDI®, Ellen spent a lot of time in her room, wasn’t interested in being sociable and hadn’t developed any non-screen hobbies. Since I’ve been doing the programme lots of people have noticed how much Ellen has ‘come out of her shell’ as they call it – but it’s really that she’s much more engaged in the world. She will spontaneously seek us out to interact with us and is much more able and willing to communicate her feelings. A big one for me is that her stress levels have significantly reduced. She hated the unfamiliar, and holidays in particular but now she is much more able to cope with dynamic situations – so much so that we are planning a safari in South Africa for her 21st!
I like working with Elisa because she's very approachable and relaxed, encouraging and a bit tougher when we need her to need to be! She also has a very natural way with children/young people and nothing seems to phase her.
Abby & Richard ~ Hertfordshire
Since starting RDI® a year ago M has made so much progress. She is more flexible and much less anxious. She is becoming more robust to making mistakes and things not going according to plan. She is developing her 'episodic memory' - the ability to use her past experiences to help her deal with problems and new situations. She often now looks back and sees the funny side of things that used to really upset her and shares these emotions with us. She has also made big strides socially and is thriving at school having formed a group of friends that she loves to spend time with. As a family we are more relaxed overall and are learning to slow things down and take time to enjoy the moment, and to have a positive and hopeful attitude towards the future.
We would recommend RDI® with Elisa to any family who want to invest the time and effort in achieving long term progress and better quality of life for their children with autism.
Anne & Adam ~ Devon
Dominic now does things that he never really did before; his own communication is getting better and we see a real enjoyment in it for him which wasn't really there before. He always enjoyed rough and tumble type activities but it always had to be on his terms and turn taking wasn't something he could cope with. Now he loves to play board games, WII sports, hide and seek, all kinds of games that involve interaction with others. He also likes to just chat about things that happen and its real experience sharing now, not just a means of getting what he wants. Friends who see him now always comment on it which is such a boost for us.
Jane ~ Poole
Just to let you know my TA came back from your two day training full of beans and knowledge about Autism last week. She gained such a lot! Thank you.
~Bishop Creighton School ~
Your workshop was very helpful and we tried a few things in group along with the parents and both practitioners and parents were amazed how much more speech and connection there was............. so good :)"
~ Bubbly Bugs ~
The training is applicable to all levels of experience/ expertise and to children with and without autistic traits."
~ Family Action~
It's the best training I've been on, it is a practical approach, not just useless theory!
~ Beeches School~
Elisa is an empathetic, insightful, and highly attuned person whom we had the pleasure to consult with by telephone about our 16 year old son. My husband and I found it instantly easy to talk to her openly and candidly about a complicated and sensitive situation.
My son began school refusing aged 10 at which time we had a one-off consultation with a CAMHS advisor which was unhelpful and inappropriate. We continued to actively seek help over the next year or so and consulted many (many) different private therapists, counsellors, clinical child psychotherapists, an educational psychologist, and last resort a child psychiatrist. Each of these negative, deflating, and depressing experiences put us off seeking any form of therapy or support for life. I can’t begin to think how many thousands of hours and pounds we have spent investing in utterly useless and disparaging conversations and more anxiety than we started with.
Elisa changed that opinion in an instant.
She warmly and objectively validated our concerns and rationale without the usual element of ‘parents-have-no-clue’ contempt we’d grown accustomed to in the past. An absolute breath of fresh air.
Elisa honestly ticks all of the boxes which is a significantly tall order when you consider the string of negative ‘therapy’ experiences we have behind us, not excluding highly unhelpful social welfare interventions and a history of 7 private schools in our wake.
Elisa is genuinely a truly lovely person. You will only have to explain yourself once as she understands concepts and complicated detail instantly. Recounting long and involved historical events is utterly exhausting for parents (and par for the course) so having a therapist that ‘get’s it’ straightway is part of the battle and a crucial quality.